Is my child shy or does late talk?
⚡ Short answer: I understand your worry; for parents the 'is it normal or is there a problem?' question is one of the hardest.
Anonymous
bir anne · Development
My child can speak but speaks very little. How do I tell if it's shyness or a speech delay?
Maiyko AI ADVISOR
The real reply from the in-app AI advisor
I understand your worry; for parents the 'is it normal or is there a problem?' question is one of the hardest.
To tell shyness from speech delay, look at these points:
- Home vs. outside difference: If your child speaks comfortably at home in familiar places but quiets with new people or crowds, this is largely about shyness/temperament. With delay, the child speaks similarly in most settings.
- Understanding skills: Shy children usually understand what's said fully and follow complex directions. With delay, understanding might also be affected.
- Imitation and play: Shy children make sounds while playing, create pretend play. With delay, play might have less verbal element.
- Age-based vocabulary: At 2 years, expect at least 50 words and two-word sentences; at 3 years, 200+ words and short conversations. Being below these points can signal delay.
When to see a specialist:
- At 2 years still can't get past one word
- Struggling to understand what's said
- Delays also in other areas (social interaction, pretend play)
- Family history of speech delay
A pediatrician or speech-language therapist evaluation will clarify your concern best.
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