Baby only falls asleep when rocked: how to change this?
⚡ Short answer: Gradually shorten rocking time and put baby down awake but calm, teaching him to fall asleep on his own; transition takes 1-2 weeks.
Anonymous
9 aylık bebek annesi · Sleep
My baby has gotten used to being rocked to sleep, he can't sleep in my arms alone. How can I change this?
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I understand rocking at 9 months can be exhausting. At this age, babies can start learning to fall asleep on their own. Here are a few small steps you can try:
Rather than stopping rocking completely, gradually reduce rocking time each night. For example, from 5 minutes down to 3, then to 1. When rocking time is over, put your baby down while he's still awake but calm. Sit beside him, gently touching his back, and let him settle down. Gradually you can move away.
Another approach: put him down partway through rocking when he's still somewhat awake, then sit beside him saying "I'm here, I'll stay until you fall asleep." If he cries, wait a few minutes, then go back and comfort him again, but without picking him up.
This transition can take 1-2 weeks. If you stay consistent, your baby will adapt. If it goes on longer than 2 weeks with no progress, or if it's too exhausting, you can get help from a sleep consultant or pediatrician.
⚕️ Health note: This answer is for general information only; it is not medical advice. Every baby is different — for decisions about your baby's health, consult your pediatrician.
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