Baby comes to our bed after midnight: is co-sleeping harmful?
⚡ Short answer: Co-sleeping with proper safety (firm mattress, no blankets/pillows, no smoking/alcohol) isn't inherently harmful; to transition to his bed, try soothing him in his crib when he wakes instead of picking him up immediately.
Anonymous
13 aylık bebek annesi · Sleep
My baby comes to our bed after midnight and I can't get him to sleep elsewhere. Is co-sleeping dangerous, how do we transition?
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Your baby is currently 7 months old and bedsharing after midnight has become routine — I know it's exhausting.
Co-sleeping (sharing a bed) isn't inherently dangerous, but safe sleep rules matter: firm mattress, no blankets/pillows, and you must avoid tobacco/alcohol/medications. The AAP recommends separate surfaces but the same room for the first 6 months; after that, risk is lower, though safety guidelines still apply.
For a smoother transition to his own bed: When he wakes at night, try soothing him in his crib first instead of picking him up immediately. Place your hand on his chest, make a soft "shh" sound — give it 1-2 minutes. If he's genuinely upset, hold him briefly but return him to his crib as soon as he settles. Over a few nights, he'll start to see his bed as a safe place. If this doesn't help in 2 weeks, ask your pediatrician.
Is there something specific that makes sleeping separately feel harder right now?
⚕️ Health note: This answer is for general information only; it is not medical advice. Every baby is different — for decisions about your baby's health, consult your pediatrician.
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