When my second baby came, my older child started having accidents again—what do I do?
⚡ Short answer: The older child going backward (regression) with jealousy over a new sibling is developmentally expected.
Anonymous
bir anne · Diapers & Digestion
After my second baby was born, my older child who was toilet trained started having accidents again. How do I handle this regression?
Maiyko AI ADVISOR
The real reply from the in-app AI advisor
The older child going backward (regression) with jealousy over a new sibling is developmentally expected. Stepping back from toilet training when a new baby arrives is your child's way of seeking attention and feeling secure again.
The key is: See this not as a problem but as a temporary adjustment. Don't scold or shame when accidents happen. Give your child the message: "You've grown, and your baby brother/sister is still little, but sometimes even big kids need extra help—that's very normal."
Create 15–20 minutes daily that belong only to your older child, with eye contact and attention—give him the feeling: "You're still my firstborn." Instead of pushing the bathroom now, notice and gently praise when his pull-ups stay dry ("Your pants stayed so dry today!").
Most kids improve within 2–3 weeks. If accidents continue beyond that, or if you notice other signs (poor appetite, sleep trouble, withdrawal), talking to a child psychologist might help.
⚕️ Health note: This answer is for general information only; it is not medical advice. Every baby is different — for decisions about your baby's health, consult your pediatrician.
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