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Baby throws things: is this misbehavior?

⚡ Short answer: Dropping food is cause-and-effect science (7-9 months), not misbehavior: pick it up twice calmly, end play on the third drop, offer a safe toy for throwing instead.

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13 aylık bebek annesi · Development

Baby drops everything, especially spoons. I pick it up 50 times. Is this misbehavior or development — how should I react?

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This isn't misbehavior — it's a little scientist at work, testing cause-and-effect. "I drop it, sound happens, mom picks it up, I drop again!" Around 7-9 months, this becomes a game.

Strategy: Pick it up calmly the first time ("it fell!"), the second time, then on the third drop, say "now the game is done, the spoon stays on the table" and shift attention. Offer a safe, lightweight toy to throw instead — this respects the need while setting a boundary. Consistency works better than force.

⚕️ Health note: This answer is for general information only; it is not medical advice. Every baby is different — for decisions about your baby's health, consult your pediatrician.

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