What do I do when baby is stubborn about eating?
⚡ Short answer: This is a period many parents face, and usually can be managed without turning into a "power struggle."
Anonymous
bir anne · Development
My baby is stubborn about food; no matter what I do, he won't open his mouth. How do I handle stubbornness, should I give in?
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This is a period many parents face, and usually can be managed without turning into a "power struggle." Your baby's age matters a lot here: a 6-9 month old might have a natural reaction to new tastes (neophobia), while a 12-18 month old is developing independence and saying "no."
Instead of giving in, change strategy. When his mouth won't open, forcing or pushing backfires—he'll resist more. Instead: take a break from that food for 2-3 days, drop the pressure. Sit him at the table but don't insist he eats what's on it. Let him take things himself—finger foods usually face less resistance. When you put food on his plate, act casual and calm; don't show excitement or disappointment.
Avoid turning meals into a show—the "airplane coming" trick might work short-term but turns eating into performance art. The most powerful tool: eat the same food next to him and let him join you naturally. Being a model works better than pushing.
If his weight is growing steadily, skipped meals aren't cause for alarm—what matters is the overall trend. If weight gain has slowed or stopped, check with your pediatrician.
⚕️ Health note: This answer is for general information only; it is not medical advice. Every baby is different — for decisions about your baby's health, consult your pediatrician.
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